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I forget where we were going, what we were doing, or why I even felt inspired to start; what I do remember is him slamming on the breaks to avoid hitting a car in front of us. According to my gay friends, these guys go on to have girlfriends, wives, kids and remain ‘straight.’

To be fair, the same experience may not be shared by all gay men.

So, what’s the appeal of a brojob?

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You get the blowjobs, Sam gets the memories. Which means I have no way of knowing for sure why some woman ghosted you or whether your boyfriend is gay. Sam came out at the end of his freshman year, to THROAT and his other friends, and he now lives in a big city where he works in marketing when he isn’t sucking off THROAT.

My first question for Sam: Are you one of those gay guys who gets off on “servicing” straight guys?

“I’ve never done anything with a straight guy before this,” said Sam.

“So, no, I’m not someone who is ‘into servicing straight guys.’ I have only ever dated and hooked up with gay guys before!”

So, why offer to blow THROAT?

“I didn’t know until after he broke up with his girlfriend that he hadn’t gotten a blowjob the whole time they were together—four years!” Sam said. Beginning next week, November 14th, Savage Love will be exclusively available online at Savage.Love.

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Except for a Cornell Daily Sun article from last year, there are relatively few accounts of road head on the Internet. I see another car next to us; in the driver’s seat is a man whose seat is leaned way back. And one choked on a dick.

Adrienne*

When I was 16, I started dating a senior who was tall, had shaggy blonde hair (a “skater cut”), and blue eyes.

Sex is sex and, as far as these men are concerned, that’s as far as it goes, and it doesn’t really effect sexuality.

So there you have it – brojobs are a thing, it’s normal, it’s natural and you shouldn’t feel embarrassed.

Hopefully society will come to understand men’s sexuality isn’t as black and white and people would have us believe.

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Men know what men want

It’s posited that men tend to give better blowjobs.

Why? And things always taste better when they are forbidden.

Bro bonding

For some, getting naked with other men can be a form of bonding.

Comparing sizes, feeling comfortable, and not feeling like your manhood is something to be hidden – it’s appealing to a lot of guys.

What do you think is really going on in the locker rooms?

No strings attached

It’s been hypothesised that men can more easily separate sex from, well, just about anything.

It’s an analysis that would fit well with the idea that two men could enjoy a sex act together and for it to not mean anything.

“Do you remember that time a few minutes ago when we saw another guy getting road head while I was getting road head!?”

Danielle

The last time I gave road head, I was in the drive-thru for In-N-Out. I would give him road head most times we hung out because we were always in his car. He was a Minnesota pure-breed.

This guy I was casually dating and I were coming home from a bar. So we’re puttering along the road, me half enjoying a BJ, half being a nervous wreck of a lookout, and just when I finally relax enough to enjoy this awesome moment I pass a police car on the side of the road. He lived so far away (a 25-minute drive, which in high school seemed far).

One time in particular, I remember I was giving him head while we drove through the “downtown” of our suburban shit hole, a downtown which consisted of a four-lane rode with a large strip mall on both sides.

It was totally reckless, but he loved it, and I definitely have kept doing it in relationships since, if much more occasionally. He drove me to the In-N-Out on Venice Boulevard, by the Expo Line.

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He has a really nice dick! I’m playing it cool, watching what I’m doing, and about another mile down the road, the most terrible thing I can imagine happening at the time happens. Guys write to ask why women ghosted them; women write to ask if their boyfriends are secretly gay. But these are literally the only blowjobs I’ve received since I was a teenager.